Have you tried to change your personality and your looks to attract a man? Do you finally want a man to want you for you? Would you like to know how you can get a guy to like you without changing who you are? The trap of changing who you are to get a guy is something that nearly every woman deals with one time or another. It is frustrating and exhausting. There is nothing more detrimental to a woman’s self esteem than to think that she has to try to be someone she is not in order to win a man. However, this really isn’t the way to go. If you know what it is that men really want from a woman, you would probably think twice about changing who you are.